2020 Holiday Gift Guide For The Mindful Mover

The Greatest Gift of 2020, Resilience.

This year has shaken us. It has tested our anxieties, friendships, and for many our livelihood. I  honestly contemplated not doing this annual blog as I thought it could be in poor taste, speaking about gifts in a time when many American’s  financial security hangs in the balance. What changed my mind? When I saw this year’s Rockefeller Center Christmas tree, something clicked.  At first I was a little annoyed, couldn’t you just have found a nicer tree and given people the same holiday energy we are given year after year? Then I realized that pretending like everything is okay is not realistic. This flawed tree being dressed up real nice spoke a message. No matter how much we are put through, how much stress and not knowing what’s to come… Americans endure. We may not be at our most polished but we keep going and even though we see a lot of discord in our country, I  still witness acts of kindness everyday. Neighbors offering kind words or favors, smiling eyes at the grocery store behind masks, and the deeply authentic community of small business owners in our little town. 


Each year I  have tried to weave a theme into the businesses that I  highlight. Health and Wellness are front and center this year. For many this year and this virus have really nudged people to look at their own health and practices. Knowing how you feed, move, and speak to yourself has a direct correlation to your overall health. Did you know that we have some pretty amazing health workers right here in our community outside of your doctor’s office? So many that there is no way I  could highlight them all. So, in addition to local artisans, business owners, and retailers I  wanted to connect you to some amazing women who are doing important work in our community. 


Remember, keeping your money local not only helps the business you purchased from it helps your entire community thrive. When stumped for a gift, experiences are almost always my go to. 



Orofino Wellness

The Gift of Wellness

Alona Orofino is a Certified Holistic Health Coach with a Masters in Nutrition and Integrative Health. She received her training from the Maryland University of Integrative and the Institute for Integrative Nutrition in New York City.

Alona Orofino is a Certified Holistic Health Coach with a Masters in Nutrition and Integrative Health. She received her training from the Maryland University of Integrative and the Institute for Integrative Nutrition in New York City.

Alona and I have been acquainted for years, both of us are lovers of movement, wellness, and food. This year I had the opportunity to get to know Alona and experience first hand her wealth of knowledge and clear insights about relationships surrounding food. She is just one of those people that I “clicked” with. Her warm and easygoing personality are disarming and refreshing.   Alona resides in Fredericksburg, VA with her husband who is a chef from Italy. ogether they own an Italian restaurant, Orofino. 

Alona runs a weight inclusive practice that focuses on intuitive eating.  Her desire is to help women create a healthy relationship with food and their bodies, to break the dieting cycle and to heal from disordered eating patterns.  

 Contact Alona at alona@orofinowellness.com or click this link to schedule your free 15 minute consultation. 




Phosphene

The Gift Of Doing Good


Phosphene Studio offers a collection of beautiful, ethically made women's clothing and fine lifestyle goods from independent designers and environmentally conscious brands.

Phosphene Studio offers a collection of beautiful, ethically made women's clothing and fine lifestyle goods from independent designers and environmentally conscious brands.



If you haven't guessed already, I am a big fan of eco conscious products that are handmade by local artisans. Phosphene combines these loves right here in downtown Fredericksburg. The beautiful minimalist vibe of Rachel Berenbaum’s store makes you feel relaxed when you walk in. The space is bright, clean, and the pieces are beautifully displayed.

Some of Rachel’s current in store favorites are the “Everyday Oil, Black Pepper and Cedarwood Candle by Na Nin (soy based with essential oils, made in Richmond Va) and the Tea Tree & Grapefruit detox scrub by Palermo Body - uplifting and gently exfoliation for at home spa nights. “

Keeping up during the pandemic has been tough for most small business owner s but I know how our community supports their locals. with love and gusto.

“We’re so grateful for the support we’ve received in 2020 from our community - it allowed us to loosen the tight grip on ambitious goals we had set for the year (our first year in business- we opened in September 2019!) and refocus on keeping our business healthy and able to survive to 2021. We haven’t set *formal* goals for the new year (yet), but we have so many creative ideas we’re excited to develop and share. We’ll also continue to build on the foundation we’ve built during year one - offering ethically made, quality goods from independent designers and makers to our community.” - Rachel.


You can shop Phosphene online.


Talisa Cummings-Taylor, PT DPT

The Gift Of A Balanced Foundation

Talisa Cummings-Taylor is a PT, DPT that works at Fusion Rehab and Wellness. Potential clients can schedule an initial evaluation with me by calling Fusion Rehab and Wellness’s Spotsylvania location at (540) 710-0100

Talisa Cummings-Taylor is a PT, DPT that works at Fusion Rehab and Wellness. Potential clients can schedule an initial evaluation with me by calling Fusion Rehab and Wellness’s Spotsylvania location at (540) 710-0100


When I first heard that we had a new Pelvic Floor PT move to town, I had to meet her. Talisa Cummings-Taylor is the kind of person that puts you at ease. I was really warmed by her openness and her eagerness to share. Since having my babies, pelvic health has been at the crux of my teaching and programming. No matter if you had your baby 2 months or 20 years ago, the expertise of a pelvic floor PT is invaluable.

“Pelvic health rehabilitation is a non-invasive approach to rehabilitation of dysfunctions in the pelvis that contribute to bowel, bladder, sexual health, and pain complaints” (Herman and Wallace). In pelvic health PT, I facilitate treatments for a variety of conditions with targeted symptoms, such as but not limited to, urinary leakage, pelvic pain, discomfort during intercourse, abdominal separation, and persistent lower back pain. For women who are currently pregnant or are postpartum, pelvic floor therapy can be immensely helpful with tolerating or returning to daily functional activities without difficulty,” says Cummings-Taylor.

When asked what drew her to this work, “The spark for pelvic health PT began during my first year as a clinician when I had the opportunity of working with a woman who was 6 weeks postpartum at the time. She reached out to our clinic for physical therapy after developing pain in her pelvis following a vaginal delivery. Her goal was to be able to get her pain under control and to tolerate daily functional tasks, such as, getting into and out of her car, walking, navigating stairs, and safely returning to work. Witnessing her progress from start to finish expanded my interest to want to help women of all ages, with various pelvic health related dysfunctions.”

On top of being an incredible gift to our community, Talisa became a mom this year. When I asked her what it’s like being a new mom, I was moved by her answer,

“*inserts all bubbly, loving words that come to mind* This has been the most rewarding adventure that I have yet to experience in my 30 years of living. Everyday is a new adventure, a new milestone, and an added layer to love that I did not know was embedded in me. I was blessed with my son 7 months ago, and although the COVID-19 pandemic has been a very trying time, his arrival made this worth going through and experiencing. I honestly am always in awe of him and I am so grateful that I was chosen to be his mother.”




Sweat FXBG

The Gift Of Feeling Good

Sweat FXBG offers HIIT Sixty, Barre, and Cycle classes. Their state of the art equipment and knowledgeable instructors make this the premier fitness studio of the Fredericksburg area.

Sweat FXBG offers HIIT Sixty, Barre, and Cycle classes. Their state of the art equipment and knowledgeable instructors make this the premier fitness studio of the Fredericksburg area.

It’s no secret, I love to move and I love to be challenged. When I saw this concept opening, I really wanted to be a part of it. Having taken a break from teaching public classes for the last three years, I wanted to return to the energy of it. Not only did the concept intrigue me, the execution was what drew me to teaching here. Owners Robin and Carrick Longley are the type of people who make you feel comfortable. They have fostered a work environment that encourages their instructors to use their voice and let their personality and passion shine through each class they lead. I feel very fortunate to be a part of such a diverse and warm team.

Fitness has been a passion for Robin and Carrick for many years, each having a different path to where we are today.

Robin’s passion for fitness happened recently. When her mother passed away in 2016 she made health and wellness a priority. Fitness is both a mental and physical outlet. She loves group fitness, you just show up and the programming is done for you. That way you can leave life’s stresses at the door and have an hour just for you.

Carrick’s fitness for passion started nearly 25 years ago. His interest includes olympic lifting, HIIT workouts, rowing (both on and off the water), and cycle (outside and indoors).

“Sweat was born out of a desire to start a studio that wasn’t a “me too” product that we would be proud to own and operate. We had been talking about starting our own fitness studio for some time, but decided to move words into action in late July of this year. We both had experience working in and working out in a variety of gyms and studios and wanted to create something completely different than what we had seen before in Fredericksburg. We wanted to build a business focused on delivering a high quality, high end experience, while ensuring an inclusive and welcoming atmosphere to everyone who walked through our doors,” says Carrick.

Our initial design leveraged Robin’s love for group exercise and Carrick’s love for rowing to develop our HIIT Sixty concept. Sixty pairs high intensity interval training workouts with Concept2 rowing machines in a room that leverages high-end lighting, sound, and local art to create a sensory experience unlike any other.

After we designed Sixty, we turned our attention to designing and incorporating Cycle and Barre into our studio concept as well as building out a high-end personal training workout space. The result is Sweat FXBG.

Sweat is locally owned and operated and is a labor of love from a small team of passionate individuals. Regardless of your age or physical fitness level, Sweat is an all-inclusive group fitness studio that offers a variety of group and individual level programming. In addition to what we offer, we aim to differentiate ourselves from many other gym and fitness facilities by not using contracts to lock-in clients. Everything is month to month in our studio and we don’t use contracts. Our approach ensures we continue to deliver a high quality experience and removes the contract “penalty” out of the equation. We want Sweat to be a place you want to be and belong.

Sweat is located at 3453 Fall Hill Avenue, Fredericksburg, Virginia 22401 and is located next to the Navy Federal Credit Union and Wegmans in Central Park. Visit us on the web at https://sweatfxbg.com/


Paige Lynch, Functional Medicine NP

The Gift Of Balance

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Paige is Functional Medicine Nurse Practitioner that owns a web-based private practice here in Fredericksburg.

Did you know that wellness isn’t always just about diet and exercise? On a deeper level, hormones play a huge part in how we metabolize food, our moods, and they can affect our energy levels. We are learning that hormones can be disrupted from pregnancy, lack of sleep, food deficiencies, and from chemicals found in everyday products. Trying to balance your hormones should never be a guessing game.

Lynch partners with women to identify the root cause of hormonal imbalances and chronic illness. She creates a comprehensive and individualized plan to reverse these imbalances, creating a life of happiness, health, and energy.

She offers patients longer appointments (60+ minutes), weekly group visits for community and learning, ongoing messaging and support, discounted medical-grade supplements, in-depth conventional and functional hormone testing and complete lifestyle makeover.

To contact Paige, go to www.functionalhealthandwellness.com


Soley Skin Studio

The Gift Of Glow

Andrea Pomrenke is a Licensed Master Esthetician who owns Soley Skin in downtown Fredericksburg.

Andrea Pomrenke is a Licensed Master Esthetician who owns Soley Skin in downtown Fredericksburg.

The first session I had with Andrea I was very delighted in her approach to skin care. During a session, she perfectly balances the sharing of skinformation (please laugh) with a fully relaxing experience. Your skin endures so much and as we get older perhaps the desire to take care of it increases.

Her space, located at 319-2 William Street in downtown Fredericksburg across from Fahrenheit 132 is soothing. The last time I met with Andrea she said something that stuck, she wanted to create a “womb-like environment,” for her clients. What a perfect way to say it. The table is cozy, the room is quiet, and the music is settling.

“My passion for skincare was actually spurred by my struggles with acne and eczema. As a teenager, I began to pour myself into learning as much as I could about how lifestyle, nutrition, and my skincare products affected me skin. I found that everything was connected and just couldn’t stop learning, even through college where I focused my studies on Geology and Geography which also have surprising associations with skincare,” Says Pomrenke.

I asked her what was her favorite part of working in downtown Fredericksburg, “I absolutely love being a part of the close-knit community of downtown. There is such a contagious and homey energy that just doesn’t compare to other settings i’ve worked in. I love that I can pop by Hyperion on my coffee breaks, or grab a quick bite at one of the many great restaurants on my lunch!”

As for holiday traditions, “Growing up in and Icelandic household, there was a great tradition of gifting books on Christmas Eve. I have so many fond memories sitting around the tree and browsing through books until late at night. I love gifting thoughtful books or journals for the holidays because of that.”

You can schedule a service with Andrea by visiting Soleyskin.com

Core By Crystal

Gift of the Core Restore


Crystal owns and operates Core By Crystal, an online program focused on helping mothers restore their core after baby.

Crystal owns and operates Core By Crystal, an online program focused on helping mothers restore their core after baby.

Crystal and I met through Instagram and we quickly learned that we had much in common. We are both yoga, barre, Pilates instructors that happen to be Prenatal and Postpartum Corrective Exercise Specialists certified through Dr. Sarah Ellis Duval at Core Exercise Solutions. Crystal and her family recently moved to Fredericksburg from Seattle.

Crystal facilitates an online six week program to help moms repair diastasis recti, prevent prolapse, and support overall health through properly restoring the core.

This course is great for busy moms, any mom who wants to take the time to focus on their health and wellness, as well as movement instructors who want to gain deeper knowledge on how to safely train their prenatal and postpartum clients.

This program includes practices from YogaFaith, a Christian based yoga practice.

Crystal’s next 6 week program starts Spring of 2021. Contact her at crystalhendrix.com


Francine Rodgers Holistic Life Coach, MSW

The Gift Of Zen

Francine is a Holistic Life Coach. She attained her Masters in Social Work from Virginia Commonwealth University in 2016.

Francine is a Holistic Life Coach. She attained her Masters in Social Work from Virginia Commonwealth University in 2016.

You know those people what just keep showing up in your life? Francine and my paths have been crossing for the last 15+ years, from the early high school days, to our time waiting tables at Bonefish Grill, and to now when we have reconnected through motherhood. Each of our daughters practically share the same birthdays, perhaps our friendship is kismet.

Francine is one of those souls who lights up a room upon entering. She is real, warm, and a brilliant beauty that has much to give and to share.

“I provide life coaching services which are tailored specifically to each individual, couple, and family I work with.  Solution-focused goals, positive change, attaining balance, and healing trauma are some of my areas of focus. I combine my education and ongoing work experience with holistic healing approaches. The most rewarding thing about my chosen life path is the incredible amount of resilience I see in all living beings. I think that that root of suffering often stems from the rejection and abandonment of the self. I enjoy connecting people to their true selves, as I am on my own journey of doing the same. I am open to an array of healing methods to include a focus of healing trauma, assessing motivation for change, meeting the person exactly where they are, energy healing, guided meditation, and breathwork. Most importantly, I provide a safe and nonjudgmental environment. It is an honor to work with those on their voyage, as I learn a lot as well. I am in the process of broadening my horizons to advance healing with body movement,” says Rodgers.

Contact Francine via her website to schedule a session.


2019 Holiday Gift Guide For The Mindful Mover

Hey Mindful Movers and lovers of our community. As I was planning the third edition of the HGGFMM ( It’s really a mouthful), I began to reflect on what this year has taught me. My family has begun to make small steps to becoming more eco conscious. From saying no to plastic bags, using reusable beeswax and canvas cloths in lieu of plastic wrap, and buying second hand, I have made it my goal to be less wasteful. It can be overwhelming when you realize how much waste we create. I am not tackling some big and slightly unrealistic goal, I am chipping away by making little decisions everyday.

This is the time of year when commerce analysts track trends and watch what people are spending their money on. We can drive the market to support eco conscious businesses just by supporting them. There are few ways you can be impactful this season.

1. Shop Local

Not only are you supporting a small business thus putting money back into your community, you are also using less plastic and cardboard by not having and item shipped.

2. Gift Experiences

This has always been near and dear to my heart. The gift of experience is one that lasts beyond the holiday season.

3. Support Craftsmanship

There is a nostalgia for owning something that is one of a kind or hand made. I truly feel that people are pulling a way from the dime a dozen, more for less bargain. I personally love the energy that was put into making something by hand and how that resonates in the space it inhabits.

In Health,

Kiersten


The Gift of Captured Moments

A Photography Session with Lisa Hourin

Raw, authentic, and moving are a few words that I would use to describe Lisa Hourin’s photography. A professional photography session is a gift that one can cherish from years to come. A session with Lisa is effortless, real, and comfortable.

When I asked Lisa what inspires her, “As far as inspiration...I draw ALL of my inspiration from my clients. My intention is to capture the authenticity, emotion, realness and art of my subject. In our woo woo terms, I think it mainly encompasses being present in each moment that I'm shooting.

Check out more of Lisa’s work at lisahourin.com


The Gift of Insight

An Intuitive Session with Christy Escher

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I first met Christy when she offered Dragonfly instructors a group reading. It was an amazing experience and each group session that I have attended since always leaves me with the same message: we are all going through it, be kind. Also, each session helps me realize we are all more connected that we see in on the surface.

It’s hard to explain what a session is like. Christy provides a clear description for those who are curious:

“During a group healing, Christy creates a safe space of trust and understanding. She opens the group with a prayer and gently guides a brief meditation where she feels into each participant’s chakras. Intuitively, she identifies areas in the body where one might be storing unprocessed emotion and how this unprocessed energy is manifesting now. Then, Christy goes back and uncovers circumstances and events that triggered these sensitivities and emotions. Once that cellular memory is unlocked, participants come to realisations on their own and perceptions shift. Christy also discusses integration and next steps. Only that which needs to come through does, so it's never too much or unmanageable. This is deep inner work that can help people release old patterns that no longer serve them.

During an individual healing, Christy is able to go deeper and feel into subtle energies. She supports her clients as they learn to move inward on their healing journey. Christy offers meditations that clients can use to cultivate healing practices on their own. While it is often tremendously helpful to find support in the community, everything we need is inside of us. We are here to support and serve each other, while at the same time learn how to dive deeply into the inner-healing journey of the self.” ~ Christy Escher

For more information visit birthingnewdimensions.com




The Gift of Being Mindful

All products created by Lisa Mitchell of be mindful are 100% clean.

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Did you know that synthetic perfumes, caustic chemicals, and those scented plug ins can cause endocrine disruption? Recent studies are beginning to support how these chemicals are causing a range of health issues. Lisa Mitchell created be mindful to offer alternatives to mass produced chemical products.

“Some moment of clarity hit me on my journey of yoga and trying to nurture my body with healthy food, that using commercial cosmetics, lotions and body sprays were taxing my lymphatic system and skincare was as important as diet. I wanted to share solutions I had found,” says Mitchell. I find it fascinating and impressed by the variety of products Lisa offers. As a migraine sufferer, I purchased her magnesium spray which is wonderful for sore muscles as well. Often times migraines are brought on by a lack of magnesium in the body and it can be absorbed through the skin.

When asked how she learned to make her products, “I have a background in health science and a passion to create so I began an intense research phase on herbalism and nature infusion.” I admire Lisa’s work and her message, “ I would encourage people to revisit our connection to nature. I believe provisions for our bodies to thrive begin at a cellular level and nurturing our bodies reveals more long term benefits than the quick toxic chemical overload of industrial products.”

See Lisa’s products and learn more at bemindful.net




The Gift of Art

Local artist Cait Graham creates one of kind pieces from natural materials.

I came across Cait’s artwork on instagram (#amazing) and I was really moved by the fluidity, simplicity, and creative works of art.

“I wish I could say this project was born from a pun gone awry (they’re sticks.. that are figures) but in truth it grew out of apophenia, the tendency to see patterns in random data. Most of us see shapes in clouds and faces in cars. I wanted to solidify what I saw - that the sidewalks are littered with elbows, long stretches of leg muscle, and the curve where the neck meets the shoulder.

For me, joy comes from arranging these shapes without modifying the materials in any way.  Every twig is used just as it was found; no shortening, no breaking, no removing side shoots.  By taking these twigs out of the context of their natural environment I get to choose where to create the gaps that our minds can’t help but fill,” says Graham.

Her works are currently on display at Kybecca and are also available at Fraser Wood Elements. Check out her her one of a kind pieces at www.cgtxture.com


The Gift of Renewal

Enjoy a long weekend connecting in the heart of the Blue Ridge Mountains.

Stephanie Coiner, Catie Nawrocki, and myself found easy friendship through some of the things we love most, yoga, soul work, and food. We are excited to bring all of those elements to this collaborative long weekend for out Renew and Reset Women’s Retreat. This is a perfect gift for the very special person in your life who takes care of it all. This retreat is meant to revive!

Renew and Reset the soul with an extended Women’s Weekend Retreat in Amherst, Va June 4-7 2020. ♾
Come and stay at the historic and enchanting Fairview Estate built in 1867 in the heart of the Blue Ridge Mountains.
Enjoy ample free time to take in the property’s panoramic views, read a book on the expansive porch, roaming peacocks, and distinctive Italiante architecture. ♾
This special retreat is an opportunity to be energized and inspired by the space, people and vibrations that surround you.
Reset the body with clean, freshly prepared meals, healthy movement, and fresh mountain air.
Renew and relax the mind with our guided meditations and wellness offerings.
Rejuvenate the spirit through soulful connection and taking time for your own self care. ♾
This intimate retreat hosted by Stephanie Coiner, Catie Nawrocki, and Kiersten Kennedy is centered around softening into your divine feminine essence through movement, meditation, and connection. ♾
Retreat offerings:
-Accommodations in the historic Fairview Estate
-All meals included (breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Vegetarian and non vegetarian options provided)
-Hiking
-Guided Meditation
-Sacred Women’s Circle
-Group Reiki
-Yoga and Pilates Sessions
-Group healing session with Christy Escher of Birthing New Dimensions
-Plant and crystal healing
-Massage (optional add on)
-And more!

Go to discovertula.com to register


The Gift of Longevity

Sarah Jennings of Sarah J. Fitness will help you find your strength and meet your goals.

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I feel honored to call Sarah a friend and a peer. Her dedication to her craft and her easy going personality are what makes an exceptional personal trainer.

Sarah Jennings a is one of the most sought after personal trainers in the Fredericksburg Virginia area. Sarah’s number one objective is safety and correct form and technique when training her clients. She believes patience is key to gaining strength, power and endurance and changing unhealthy choices into healthy habits. Sarah became a personal trainer to help people realize their God given gifts and talents and loves to watch people thrive after they realize their capabilities. Sarah is easy going and understands her clients’ personalities and individual needs. She encourages rather than discourages and is always willing to go that extra mile for any client.

Sarah’s Certifications

  • National Personal Training Institute – CPT (NPTI)

  • Suspension Training (NPTI)

  • Kettle Bell Training (NPTI)

  • Nutrition (NPTI)

  • Mobility (NPTI)

Sarah is currently taking clients at Bodyworks in downtown Fredericksburg. Keep an eye out for her spin classes coming soon. Email her at sarah@sarahjfitness.com




The Gift of Play

Fort Pure Play expands its offering with a store filled with loose play parts.

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Owner Jodie Vaughn knows how to play. With her background in pediatric occupational therapy, Vaughn knows just how important play and imagination are for childhood development. Fort To-Go isn’t just a toy store. “We curate special pieces that can be used for years to come, passed down among children in a family, and even across generations,” Jodie stated in her interview with he Freelance Star. Many of these toys are handmade and will stand the test of time. From durable toy cars to the softest snuggle buddies, Fort To-Go is a must when shopping for children this holiday season.

In addition to the store front on Caroline Street, Fort Pure Play is a wonderful space for you child to explore many of the items sold in the shop.

Visit fortpureplay.com


The Gift of Charity

Donate to help support wellness programs for our community

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The Yoga Foundation of Fredericksburg (YOFO) is a 501c3 nonprofit organization that provides yoga, mindfulness and wellness classes to underserved groups and individuals in the Fredericksburg area. Your donations help fund 40-50 free classes a month for children, families, and those with special needs.

YOFO also runs a community-based studio where yoga teachers and wellness practitioners manage their own classes and workshops, offering a variety of unique and inspiring styles to the yoga community. All studio profits are funneled back into the community to provide yoga to those in need.

Making a donation in someone’s name is a wonderful way to show you are thinking of them while enhancing the community.

Do you have something you’d like to offer the community? YOFO is looking for wellness professionals to share and enrich our community.

Visit yogaforeveryone.org for more details.

Jai!

Jai!

Becoming a parent is the most spiritually profound thing I have ever done. I am not talking about the pregnancy or the birth. It is looking at this human that you are responsible for and wanting to be the best possible version of yourself so that you can show them how beautiful life is. I want to teach my baby that by living to serve others we can help heal the wounds of this world.

So, your butt forgot how to butt.

So your butt forgot how to butt.

The first time I heard the term "gluteal amnesia" was in a barre class at Physiqa in Oakland California. I believe I chuckled to myself at the phrase, thinking that was an effective way to state that our glutes weren't working hard enough. Annabel Castaldo, owner of Physiqa, friend, and someone I consider a mentor, happened to be teaching this class that had a lasting impact on my own personal movement as well as how I approach teaching movement to others. Her phrase, "gluteal amnesia" just stuck with me and made me think about the cultural movement habits we have all adapted since the era of technology and convenience. Let's think about it;
We sit, A LOT.
Despite an active lifestyle, chances are we sit more than our grandparents did at our age. We sit in our cars, perhaps at a desk at work, and at home. It's not just the sitting that causes issues, it's how we sit. 
We sit in chairs
Unlike many other cultures, we sit off the floor, supported in highback chairs, comfy couches, and body-hugging bucket seats. This comfort has its price. Unfortunately the way we sit directly affects our back, glutes, and abdominals. When the legs are fixed at a 90 degree angle, the hip flexors shorten thus tilting the pelvis forward. Think of it like a chain reaction, pelvis tilts forward, abdominals disengage, glutes release, and the low back starts to tighten. Over time, this posture allows the glutes to go dormant and their job of stabilizing the hips is now taken over by the back. Once this happens, pain may begin to set in at the lower back, hips, and down the legs.
Wake those buns up!
There are many exercises that you can do to get you butt to butt again but one thing is a constant, you have to be MENTALLY present. While your glutes have physically stopped firing, that means the signals from your brain to your butt have weakened too. This is where the brain/body reconnection is so important. Some say that they workout to not think, to which I reply, "a mindless workout is an open invitation to injury and you are only getting 50% of what you could be getting if your brain were involved." 
Become more present in your workout.
Personally, yoga introduced me to the concept of mindful movement and Pilates helps me go deeper physically and mentally. Barre, bridged to two together, not to mention it was where I had my first "gluteal awakening." For me, a successful barre class is a dance of the mind and body, a perfect balance of grace, strength, and flow. There are many different Barre Methods however, Flux Barre is dedicated to my client's personal postural needs and of course getting that behind to fire again. 

To: Yoga (an honest love letter)

    Today a friend of mine and I were discussing how yoga has been instrumental in offering clarity to our everyday lives. We talked about how people seek and find different things from yoga and that everyone takes away something different from their practice. Some come to yoga to manage pain, deal with stress, some come to cultivate flexibility, balance, and strength. Whatever brings you to your mat, there is no "right" reason to practice yoga. The call to the practice is just as personal as the practice itself. 
    Over the years my practice has changed, not in some linear way, more of an ebb and flow like the ocean tides. At times it was driven by vanity or my desire to be thinner, stronger, better than the person next to me. At times, my asana practice was nonexistent as I made excuses as to why my mat was collecting dust even though my body and mind begged me to move and breathe in harmony. Through my 13 year relationship with yoga  one thing has remained constant in my practice, AWARENESS. Even though I may not like to admit that in my younger 20s my practice was about body image and in my mid 20s it was about showing off on my mat, yoga has allowed me to be AWARE of all that. I am able to admit these not so flattering personality flaws because yoga has shown me to embrace the good and the bad, the light and the dark. These qualities are what make me who I am, a flawed human being. 
    At this point in my life, my practice is deeply personal. As my friend said today "it's like religion," and for me that resonated. My body, the temple, my practice, the prayer. I think every single yogi can understand that. No, yoga is not a religion but it requires faith, discipline, and love, like religion. As an instructor I know now that my path isn't to share my practice with you, yet to help lead you to your own. I aspire to create a warm, nonjudgmental, safe space for you to cultivate your inner and outer awareness. 

 

Life In Flux

My husband and I recently welcomed our first child and life has been forever changed. During my pregnancy I began another life changing endeavor, starting a business. In the early stages of framing out what I wanted out of my business, I was wrought with doubt, fear and guilt. I was constantly in my head, ( thank you, pregnancy hormones). I would ask myself "is this the right time?" "What if I fail?" And the doozy, "does this make me a selfishly bad mother?" My husband and family's words of support and encouragement helped me press on but I knew that deep down I had to be sure this was right. Like most pregnant women, I retreated a bit. I found my yoga and Pilates practices became more self reflective than they ever had been. Perhaps it was because I had to slow down and take it easy but I was also reminded of a principle that I strive to teach in my classes and private sessions, BALANCE. I work everyday to find it, some days I am more successful at it than others but the key is that it is work. For me, this work towards or to maintain balance is life affirming. 


So now, when I hold my baby girl, I know that going forth in building my business is right. Those questions and feelings of doubt, fear, and guilt still rear their heads occasionally but they are quickly silenced by the deep knowing that this is right for us. I am a mother, a wife, and a daughter but I am also so much more. I want to share this feeling of balance with my clients. Just like in our yoga practice, asanas look different for every body and I believe the idea of a balanced life is the same, balance is personal, and life is always in flux.